Recently, I have found myself constantly in and out of text message conversations with a young man who I met recently...but he hasn't made a move to actually plan anything or suggest a date or even made a vague suggestion about hanging out. But he seems to want to chat with me all the time.

Happy Black Girl Day! This month, I want to salute someone very special to me: my eldest sister, Sister OGSB (yes, I am rude enough to use an inside joke nickname on the internet and not define it…what? She’s my sister, I’m not gonna tell all our secrets!) Yesterday was her birthday and it seems [...]