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The last 30 posts

• Why Derrick Rose IS A Role Model (Especially In Today’s NBA) - 3 January 2012 - 10 comments
• Cain Aint Able, Nor Is He A Victim - 7 December 2011 - 11 comments
• And The Winner Is… - 5 December 2011 - 2 comments
• When Will Negronia Divorce This Man? - 17 November 2011 - 10 comments
• Giveaway! Twisted Sista Products - 16 November 2011 - 2 comments
• Nuttin’ But Love: RIP Heavy D - 9 November 2011 - 2 comments
• I’m A Non Belieber - 7 November 2011 - 9 comments
• A Change Hath Come - 31 October 2011 - 54 comments
• The Death of Sister Toldja - 19 October 2011 - 7 comments
• The Worst Song Ever, Perhaps Definitely - 10 October 2011 - 7 comments
• Rihanna Goes Incognegro For British Vogue - 3 October 2011 - 6 comments
• Tuesday Tirade - 27 September 2011 - 6 comments
• Take Your Time - 22 September 2011 - 1 comments
• The Cult of Cyber Cynicism and Hate - 21 September 2011 - 2 comments
• Home Again - 19 September 2011 - 5 comments
• One Year In: What I’ve Learned - 13 September 2011 - 13 comments
• Come On Down To Avenue A - 6 September 2011 - 2 comments
• Another Roundup! - 31 August 2011 - 0 comments
• ‘Infiltrating Hollywood’ Examines the Legacy of The Spook Who Sat By The Door - 30 August 2011 - 1 comments
• Quiet Storm - 29 August 2011 - 6 comments
• Roundup - 24 August 2011 - 0 comments
• Cheating Hearts and Cyber Thugs - 22 August 2011 - 14 comments
• Music Documentaries: The Fine Line Between Truth and Propaganda - 16 August 2011 - 1 comments
• America Loves ‘The Help’, Needs Some Help - 15 August 2011 - 29 comments
• What’s Up With The Love? - 8 August 2011 - 8 comments
• The Pressure To Reproduce - 3 August 2011 - 12 comments
• Why Shouldn’t Rape Victims Get Paid? - 27 July 2011 - 31 comments
• Shook By The Inevitable - 25 July 2011 - 10 comments
• No Birthday Today - 22 July 2011 - 4 comments
• Eternal Gloom Of The Cluttered Mind - 20 July 2011 - 6 comments
• The White Guy Thing Again? - 10 August 2010 - 65 comments
• Support Kevin Powell for Congress - 29 July 2010 - 7 comments
• “And The Brother Said” Vol. 1 f/Phonte Coleman - 2 June 2010 - 56 comments
• Love and Marriage - 22 June 2010 - 9 comments
• A “Pause” For The Cause - 24 June 2010 - 48 comments
• On Michael, With Love - 25 June 2010 - 18 comments
• Redemption Song? - 28 June 2010 - 46 comments
• To Have and To Hold Down- Pt. 1 - 30 June 2010 - 35 comments
• To Have and To Hold Down- Pt. 2 - 1 July 2010 - 33 comments
• Let’s Wait A While - 6 July 2010 - 39 comments
• Get With This: B*tch Is The New Black - 8 July 2010 - 22 comments
• Elsewhere Today. - 9 July 2010 - 0 comments
• B*tch, Please? - 12 July 2010 - 20 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: July 2010 Edition - 14 July 2010 - 6 comments
• Guest Post: How Feminism Did NOT Kill My Sexy - 15 July 2010 - 29 comments
• Get With This: Mixed Chicks - 19 July 2010 - 26 comments
• Growing Pains - 20 July 2010 - 16 comments
• Conversations With Mother Toldja - 23 July 2010 - 18 comments
• A Modest Proposal - 27 July 2010 - 19 comments
• The Second Worst I Ever Had - 28 July 2010 - 24 comments
• Friday Foolery - 30 July 2010 - 6 comments
• Dating Game: He Said, I Listened - 3 August 2010 - 25 comments
• After The Dance - 2 August 2010 - 15 comments
• Get With This: FREE CANDY - 4 August 2010 - 4 comments
• Return Of The Mack - 9 August 2010 - 104 comments
• Guest Post: Why You Should Encourage Little Girls To Play Sports - 10 August 2010 - 17 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day 8/10: My Sister’s Kept One - 11 August 2010 - 17 comments
• Five For Friday: Afro-Twitter Revolution - 13 August 2010 - 11 comments
• Stop Wasting My Free Text Messages - 16 August 2010 - 19 comments
• The Twitter/Blogging Comment Problem - 17 August 2010 - 72 comments
• On Lauryn, Proposition 8 and That Mosque Situation - 18 August 2010 - 4 comments
• Take It This Far - 23 August 2010 - 17 comments
• The Power of No Forgiveness - 24 August 2010 - 14 comments
• Just Another Case of That Old DEA - 25 August 2010 - 15 comments
• Get With This: My Mic Sounds Nice - 26 August 2010 - 7 comments
• Live From The Color Complex, Part 1 - 30 August 2010 - 65 comments
• Get With This: 365 Girl - 1 September 2010 - 2 comments
• Merci Beaucoup! - 1 September 2010 - 2 comments
• Say No Go: Big Shots Bar and Grill - 3 September 2010 - 25 comments
• Get With This: One Night In Vegas - 6 September 2010 - 6 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day 9/10: Feelin’ Good - 8 September 2010 - 8 comments
• Embracing Feminism and the Pleasure of Pleasing - 13 September 2010 - 20 comments
• Yet Another Poison Going On - 14 September 2010 - 11 comments
• Week In Review - 17 September 2010 - 1 comments
• She Never Asked For It - 21 September 2010 - 32 comments
• Get With This- FreeCandy: The Musical Fundraiser - 22 September 2010 - 1 comments
• Why “No Wedding, No Womb” Doesn’t Work - 23 September 2010 - 80 comments
• Free Herself - 28 September 2010 - 37 comments
• Negronia vs. The Gay - 4 October 2010 - 29 comments
• Case In Point - 6 October 2010 - 48 comments
• Simpin’ Ain’t Easy - 11 October 2010 - 19 comments
• He’s Right, But It’s Not Okay. - 14 October 2010 - 12 comments
• Let’s Talk About Sex Positive: And Doing It Well - 16 October 2010 - 6 comments
• You Ain’t Gettin’ None - 16 October 2010 - 12 comments
• ‘Mad At’ Monday - 18 October 2010 - 14 comments
• Death of the Cool - 22 October 2010 - 16 comments
• Tell Me What I Need To Hear - 26 October 2010 - 15 comments
• Who’s That Peepin’ In Our Window? - 27 October 2010 - 14 comments
• You, Me And She - 1 November 2010 - 15 comments
• Lawd, Lawd, Lawd - 3 November 2010 - 28 comments
• Tommorrow: Emergency Happy Black Girl Day! - 4 November 2010 - 25 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: November 2010 Edition - 10 November 2010 - 29 comments
• Emergency HBGD: Black Girls Rock! - 5 November 2010 - 3 comments
• Let’s Not Play The Game - 9 November 2010 - 17 comments
• About This Boyfriend Thing… - 15 November 2010 - 22 comments
• Guest Post-What Are “We” Saying - 16 November 2010 - 27 comments
• The Participant Ribbon - 18 November 2010 - 29 comments
• Week In Review - 19 November 2010 - 0 comments
• Culture Matters - 29 November 2010 - 11 comments
• Heal Yourself Elsewhere - 22 November 2010 - 29 comments
• Dear Mama - 24 November 2010 - 12 comments
• After The Chocolate - 26 November 2010 - 18 comments
• That Ain’t It: Keri Hilson - 30 November 2010 - 35 comments
• Real Talk, Wrong Talk - 2 December 2010 - 11 comments
• Of Geese, Gander and Explict Music Videos - 6 December 2010 - 22 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: December 2010 Edition - 8 December 2010 - 15 comments
• Elizabeth Edwards: Grace and Resilience - 9 December 2010 - 6 comments
• A Long Dark Song - 13 December 2010 - 11 comments
• Support Jabari Smith For “Paradise Hunter”! - 14 December 2010 - 3 comments
• More Than A River In Egypt, Part 1 - 15 December 2010 - 23 comments
• Time Takes On ‘Passing As Black’, Fails - 17 December 2010 - 16 comments
• A Complex Ain’t Simple - 20 December 2010 - 16 comments
• Click And Read - 22 December 2010 - 6 comments
• Fly Away - 24 December 2010 - 9 comments
• Why Kwanzaa? - 27 December 2010 - 7 comments
• Thug Appeal - 3 January 2011 - 13 comments
• YOU Can’t Tell Me Nothing - 5 January 2011 - 25 comments
• New Year: New Me, New You - 10 January 2011 - 9 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: January 2011 Edition - 12 January 2011 - 8 comments
• T-Pain Launches “Booty Symphony”; Toldja Weeps - 18 January 2011 - 21 comments
• I Hate You. Come Closer. - 20 January 2011 - 35 comments
• I Went On An Adventure! - 25 January 2011 - 17 comments
• Too Hot To Handle, Too Cold To Smile? - 28 January 2011 - 30 comments
• Nobody Smiling v 2.0 - 31 January 2011 - 33 comments
• The Attack On Black Women’s Choice (Part 1) - 1 February 2011 - 32 comments
• The Attack On Black Women’s Choice (Part 2) - 3 February 2011 - 18 comments
• A Right To Be Hostile - 7 February 2011 - 57 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: February 2011 Edition - 9 February 2011 - 2 comments
• Killer Curves - 14 February 2011 - 11 comments
• Thirsty? Drink Sprite… Cause He’s Taken - 17 February 2011 - 5 comments
• Stupid Is The New Rap - 21 February 2011 - 19 comments
• The Extended Adolescence of (Some) American Men - 23 February 2011 - 29 comments
• Our Bodies, Our Rights…OUR Fight - 28 February 2011 - 37 comments
• Bougie? I’ll Be That - 3 March 2011 - 22 comments
• Revenge, Retaliation and Get Back - 7 March 2011 - 26 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: March 2011 Edition - 9 March 2011 - 4 comments
• National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day - 10 March 2011 - 4 comments
• Get With This: Your Degrees Won’t Keep You Warm At Night - 15 March 2011 - 9 comments
• Sick Of Rap, Part 314 - 23 March 2011 - 17 comments
• Cruel Summer - 28 March 2011 - 13 comments
• Grown’s Gone And Got Me - 30 March 2011 - 14 comments
• Getting Down On Five For Friday - 1 April 2011 - 8 comments
• Ready To Lie - 4 April 2011 - 11 comments
• Becky’s Got A Baby - 6 April 2011 - 12 comments
• Rap Embraces ‘The Gay’ For Pay? I’m Unimpressed - 12 April 2011 - 9 comments
• Happy Black Girl Day: April 2011 Edition - 13 April 2011 - 11 comments
• Election Season Blues - 18 April 2011 - 7 comments
• Tuesday Bluesday - 19 April 2011 - 9 comments
• Kidnapped Black Teen Fails To Capture Media Attention - 21 April 2011 - 7 comments
• New Film Ties Civil Rights Movement and The Marriage Equality Fight - 25 April 2011 - 3 comments
• Bitter Little Pea: Will.I.Am’s Bad Condom Policy - 27 April 2011 - 21 comments
• Crazy Like Fox - 2 May 2011 - 6 comments
• Big Girls Do Cry, Apparently - 3 May 2011 - 36 comments
• Five For Friday: Good Old Internet - 6 May 2011 - 2 comments
• Patriot Games: Mendenhall’s Poor Choice To Act American - 9 May 2011 - 11 comments
• The Negronia Meme - 11 May 2011 - 12 comments
• CNN Anchor’s Brave Choice To Be Himself - 16 May 2011 - 9 comments
• Hot Links, No Swine - 18 May 2011 - 4 comments
• Web Of Hate - 20 May 2011 - 5 comments
• Getting Down On Monday - 23 May 2011 - 5 comments
• The Beau and The Beautiful (Struggler) - 24 May 2011 - 24 comments
• The Hurt Tape - 26 May 2011 - 11 comments
• Losing Gil, Left With Ruins - 31 May 2011 - 11 comments
• Rihanna’s “Man Down” Sparks Absurd Controversy - 2 June 2011 - 32 comments
• The Clever Weiner Pic Title Well Is Dry - 7 June 2011 - 2 comments
• Dollar Makes No Sense: Where Is The Eddie Long Outrage? - 9 June 2011 - 6 comments
• Friday Roundup! - 10 June 2011 - 2 comments
• This Is The End - 13 June 2011 - 9 comments
• A Room Of Your Own? - 15 June 2011 - 25 comments
• Lessons In Consequence: Tolerance, Acceptance or Resignation? - 14 June 2011 - 7 comments
• Amy Winehouse’s Tragic “Comeback” Show - 20 June 2011 - 5 comments
• Embarrassed Of Being Embarrassed - 22 June 2011 - 19 comments
• Ba Da Ba Ba Baaa… - 24 June 2011 - 19 comments
• Mama’s Maybe? - 27 June 2011 - 10 comments
• Keep Feminism’s Name Out Your Mouth - 29 June 2011 - 23 comments
• Support ‘Negro’ Docu-Series! - 30 June 2011 - 4 comments
• Birth of a Creep b/w The Window Sex Project - 5 July 2011 - 17 comments
• Black Love, Black Pain and a Justice Fail - 7 July 2011 - 2 comments
• Negronia and Emotional Brand Loyalty - 11 July 2011 - 11 comments
• Who Wants To Have A ‘Dumb Mouth’ Anyway? - 13 July 2011 - 9 comments
• Lies My Mother Told Me - 18 July 2011 - 15 comments