Dig this: as I may have mentioned, I sometimes participate in a weekly conversation about Black romance. Next week’s topic is “Good Girls Vs. Bad Girls”, following up on the same subject discussed about the opposite sex some weeks ago. When we discussed the men, I VEHEMENTLY declared my abhorrence for “bad boys’. How many [...]
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Hello people! Did y’all see the Oscars last night? Good shit, right? I’m so happy for Jennifer! I can’t wait to see what she does next! Not 100% in love with her dress (though the one she donned for the afterparty was fab), but how exciting was it that Andre Leon Talley dressed her? I [...]
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Lemony Snickets! I have been having a run of bad luck as of late. -Last week, I had a dreadful cold. Just sweating and sleeping and drinking ‘Tussin for days. Like a fool, I decided to hit the streets for Valentine’s Day and go to a late night happy hour. I painted a healthy-looking face [...]
Continue ReadingA Brief Childhood Anecdote
Hello friends. I don’t have anything new to report, and I’m still pissed about the blog you should have read yesterday, which I accidentally deleted. I don’t have the heart to re-type it now, so I’ll turn to the Baby Toldja archives yet again. Picture this: Chicago, 1987. My early memories of my father involve [...]
Continue ReadingThe Beyonce Conspiracy
Something about Beyonce Knowles has never sat well with me. She’s a beautiful girl. She’s got a great voice. Yet, I’ve never liked her. Why is that? Of course, there are the crazy parents, the “D-Boy” boo, the disgruntled ex-Destiny’s Child members and the dreadful acting. But something else rubs me the wrong way about [...]
Continue ReadingWhat, What The F&$k?!?!?
Ok, so this video has been making it’s rounds all around the internets, so I initially felt no need to post it here. But I just can’t get it out of my head. I am of course speaking about Samwell’s “What, What (In The Butt)” (Not suitable for work, children and most of the states [...]
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She Never Asked For It
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Death of the Cool
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You, Me And She
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Tommorrow: Emergency Happy Black Girl Day!
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Dear Mama
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New Year: New Me, New You
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I Hate You. Come Closer.
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I Went On An Adventure!
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Nobody Smiling v 2.0
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Thirsty? Drink Sprite… Cause He’s Taken
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Stupid Is The New Rap
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The Extended Adolescence of (Some) American Men
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Our Bodies, Our Rights…OUR Fight
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Bougie? I’ll Be That
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Revenge, Retaliation and Get Back
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Happy Black Girl Day: March 2011 Edition
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National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
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Get With This: Your Degrees Won’t Keep You Warm At Night
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Sick Of Rap, Part 314
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Cruel Summer
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Grown’s Gone And Got Me
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Getting Down On Five For Friday
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Ready To Lie
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Becky’s Got A Baby
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Rap Embraces ‘The Gay’ For Pay? I’m Unimpressed
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Happy Black Girl Day: April 2011 Edition
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Election Season Blues
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Tuesday Bluesday
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Kidnapped Black Teen Fails To Capture Media Attention
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Big Girls Do Cry, Apparently
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Friday Roundup!
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This Is The End
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A Room Of Your Own?
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Amy Winehouse’s Tragic “Comeback” Show
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Lies My Mother Told Me
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Eternal Gloom Of The Cluttered Mind
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No Birthday Today
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Shook By The Inevitable
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Why Shouldn’t Rape Victims Get Paid?
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The Pressure To Reproduce
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What’s Up With The Love?
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America Loves ‘The Help’, Needs Some Help
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Quiet Storm
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